Too bad about your situation. He need to grows up! Hopefully some jail time will do him good and not just a few hours. That's the road he's going down.

 

he sounds like a selfish bottom feeding pos. if you really think kicking his *** will do the trick,... do it. couldnt hurt.. (you)

 

Gotta say I agree with everything said. I understand helping out family but it sounds like he's exceeded his share.

 

I helped my kid out of some scrapes but what finally got his attention was when we said you got yourself into the mess get yourself out. A couple of months setting out fines left an impression he has not forgotten. He also has been fine free. That was 5 years ago. Sometimes tough love is the only way to wake them up.

 

Well if I did bail his stupid *** out, I would kick his *** until his head fell off, then I would tell him that the next time, is going to be worse.
I had a uncle like that and it only took two *** kickings and he straightened out.

 

Like most have said, you need to let him sort his life out. Be there for him but not with a fist full of money, he has to sort out his own mess.