I really do have a hard time understanding why the hell people will stay with a person when they can't see them self being with him/her in the long run. Why fool yourself? You already made up your mind right? The sooner you're honest with yourself, the sooner your B/S relationship can end, and then you can move on to someone you might actually care about being with.

 

+1

I am very lucky.OD is the forever one for me. He's it...he is perfect for me. I'm not saying he is PERFECT...cause that is not possible...but he is perfect for ME...and that means EVERYTHING!

 

Good for you DG![sm=smiley20.gif]

 

Awww thanks mark....we'll give you an invite to the wedding

 

In a relationship its hard when u been with somebody for a very long time and "to put it simple terms fall out of love with them" its very hard I love her but im not in love with her. And add the fact that everytime u try to talk to her she cries it can be in a lot of cases devasting

 

It does suck. I really wish I had some advice for you man but you know in your heart what is right...for yourself and for her. It will all work out for the best. I'd hug ya if I could bro. Lord knows I've needed hugs plenty of times.

 

Sometimes doing the right thing is the hardest thing to do.

 

I fully understand spook. Keep your head up. But man its ultimaly up to you. If you want to make yourself happy then you have to do it.

 

give it a couple more years then end the thing violently..
->pre breakup is stressful && confusing
->intra breakup is filled with laughing at her cry, yelling at her to make her cry more, and the BEST time to bring up how much of a tw[sm=smiley35.gif]t she is "your just like your mother" is a good quote but "she was/is/will be better" is timeless
->post breakup remember "the only way to get over somebody is to get UNDER somebody"

keep all her cd's && get all your jamjams and hoodies BACK!!

 

EXACTLY! if it were easy to end something like that then why would we continue to put ourselves through it? Spooknick, hang in there. each day it gets easier...i just watched my brother end a 5 yr relationship and it took him realizing on the day he was going to get the ring that she wasnt the one for him. and it took him a while to get over her but he did it and so can you. be strong, hun.