ok here's one for the ladies... in my second job there are girls talking all the time about how good or how bad a guy kisses.... what do you ladies think.... what makes a kiss soo good or soo bad? i mean there always extremes to the bad, but what if the guy doesn't mean to be do you tell him? or do you tell him good he kisses...

 

I had a friend who became a gf, then we went back to being friends again (rare I know, but it really happened). She was real picky about the way she liked to be kissed, and even after we were friends again and it didn't matter, I got good reviews, but she told me she never knew how to tell a guy if he didn't kiss well. She said she'd just say nothing. If a guy could kiss, she'd let him know, 'cause she wanted more of it!!

It'll be interesting to see how the ladies here respond to this...I bet they're all different!!!

 

First, you need soft but strong lips and a take charge attitude. And guys, don't stick your tongue down a girls throat right off the bat, it's icky. I have broken off relationships b/c of bad kissing. And personally I think kissing is more important than sex. Much more personal

 

That's what I've been told....I get good 'response' when I take one hand on the side of her face, kind of cupping her chin and jaw, under her ear, reaching around to the back of the neck, and holding her firmly but not hard, drawing her to me. Sometimes two hands works, but usually one hand seems to make knees the weakest
Discovered it by 'accident', and if your lady likes that, believe me, you'll know!!!!

 

...Oh, and the tongue thing...I agree...the tongue should be a tease at first, take your time, a woman really likes to know that a guy thinks she's worth the time! Get the kissing right, and anything that follows will be that much better!! (My friend and I talked a lot about this....she taught me lots of cool stuff about women!! Much better than trial and error, less painful too!!)

 

It's all about the erogenous zones!

You know you can kiss a gal with more than your lips right? Kiss them with your fingers, caress them with your eyes...

 

OOHHHH yeah those erogenous zones!! Uh oh, ah where are we gonna go with this one? LOL Nape of the neck for me.

 

Yep, that's the purpose of the hand holding your face/neck, the index finger reaches to the nape of the neck, lightly stroking, right about the base of the skull....that's why sometimes I use two hands, 'cause if her knees get real weak I don't want her to fall over...well...maybe I want her to fall, but in a controlled manner...onto the bed....The combination of firm control and a light touch, with hands and lips, not too wet, but not dry.....yeah, kissing is an art, and once mastered yields years of good times!! The fun part of course is discovering each woman's 'hot spots' in regards to kissing.....oh yeah.....the gift that keeps on giving!!!

 

uh oh.....think I have to go now []

 

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