Hello everyone im here to say not as spooknick but as Rodger my relationship with my girlfriend is over i honestly dont no how i feel but it hurts alot if u dont no im the one who made the post " I neeed some relationship help" yep thats me i was keeping u updated and well i dont no where to go from here. So its been a long time since i was single where do i go from here? That is the question that i ask today

 

First off, go take a ride., 2nd you haven been single in a while just take it easy. Get your head straight before you get back into the game

 

its okay to miss her now.. give yourself time to be sad.. but still keep in mind that its all happened for significant reasons.. 4 years is a long time.. give yourself time to miss her.. you will.. and its okay.. and dont ride if your heads not in it.. if you do we'll make you call fn "sir" and he'll call you his dirty little $lut.. or something along those lines..

 

Well ninja i did that already and it did feel great but the minute i git back to the "real world" i felt crappy again. I would go for another ride but my chain and sprocket needs to be replaced i no it sucks vsd= that means very sad day

 

Aww honey I feel for you, I really do. I've been in your shoes.

Time. Its just a matter of time. Time for you to heal, for her to heal. Time for you to just be you for a while. You are going to want to beat yourself up over this. Don't. There will be pain and tears and lots of sadness but day by day it will get better. BE GOOD TO YOURSELF. And if you need support we are all right here.

 

Freaking anywhere you want to So lets see, choices: # 1 sink into gloom and dispare, maybe start drinking and hitting the horse. Or # 2go out with your buddies and have fun, you will run into some new tail or maybe a new girl sooner or later.

Option 2 sounds like the best to me

 

+1 amen DG

 

time and committment TO YOURSELF, my brother. Put you first. Like I said before - hang out with pals, long lost classmates, family - whatever. remember who you used to be, before things got all strange and complicated.

 

Taking time out for yourself is gonna be the best way to deal with it. Enjoy being unhitched. It won't last forever.

 

Gear up, get out, and get laid.

Boom, done.