Too bad about your situation. He need to grows up! Hopefully some jail time will do him good and not just a few hours. That's the road he's going down.

he sounds like a selfish bottom feeding pos. if you really think kicking his ass will do the trick,... do it. couldnt hurt.. (you;))

Gotta say I agree with everything said. I understand helping out family but it sounds like he's exceeded his share.

I helped my kid out of some scrapes but what finally got his attention was when we said you got yourself into the mess get yourself out. A couple of months setting out fines left an impression he has not forgotten. He also has been fine free. That was 5 years ago. Sometimes tough love is the only way to wake them up.

Well if I did bail his stupid ass out, I would kick his ass until his head fell off, then I would tell him that the next time, is going to be worse.
I had a uncle like that and it only took two ass kickings and he straightened out.

Like most have said, you need to let him sort his life out. Be there for him but not with a fist full of money, he has to sort out his own mess.